Almost exactly six months ago, I saw the ad online for the job I have now.
When I saw it, I called my mom and told her the job was in a "city" called Centralia.
"Centralia?" she responded. "Doesn't it flood there?"
I googled it. It definitely floods.
My Google search also made me realized it was halfway between Seattle and Portland, which, to a big city kid like me, literally meant the middle of nowhere.
When I was invited to do an in-person interview, I skipped class and drove across the state. I pulled off the Centralia freeway exit and immediately got lost. I ended up driving through a trailer park that had a scowling woman standing outside it who was dressed head to toe in a camouflage sweatsuit.
After driving through town (which took less than 10 minutes before I was in rural/farm/more middle of nowhere-ness) I called my dad, hysterical.
"I CAN'T DO THIS!" I shouted into the phone when he answered. "THIS PLACE DOESN'T EVEN HAVE A STARBUCKS."
"Well, don't do it then," he said. "No one is forcing you to move there."
But he didn't. It was my job interview, he said, and my first adult decision.
"I WAS ALMOST ATTACKED BY A LADY WEARING CAMO," I shouted at him before hanging up.
I eventually calmed down, found a Starbucks, went to my job interview, and accepted the job offer.
Centralia struck me as being excruciatingly small (which turned out to be true), and as the kind of place where everyone likes Nickelback (also true).
Six months later, I am still here. And I wouldn't trade this experience for anything.
I never thought months after finishing college, I would come home from a long day of writing about violence and drugs, and eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich for dinner.
I never thought I would live in a house built more than 100 years ago that had the primary source heat as a wood stove. Or that I would know how to use a wood stove.
Or that my best friend would be a four-legged knucklehead who eats garbage and kitty poo.
Most of all, I never thought a city girl with strong democrat-root would be content living in this quirky place. I guess happiness can come in strangely-shaped camouflage packages after all.
Hey, you're more grown up than me... I don't even have a dog.
ReplyDeleteActually, those weird little middle of nowhere places can be surprisingly home like. My only rule is that the town has to have a bar. I mean, a bar that isn't a weird strip club on the highway.
I wish we had a weird strip club on the highway. I feel like I could meet lots of potential boyfriends there.
DeleteThat actually sounds pretty awesome! Hope we see you more!
ReplyDeleteThis is so great to read Stephanie, I'm so glad that you've found happiness in such a tiny town, it just shows you that you should never judge a job or happiness based off the place that you live in, well so long as there actually is a Starbucks in this place. Great post Stephanie and I'm pleased that things are working out so well.
ReplyDeleteGlad you're in a good place (figuratively speaking, of course)! Thank goodness for starbucks
ReplyDeleteIt's good you did find somewhere you really do enjoy living, no matter how big or little it is. Though I think you could have done without the crazy camo lady. A place not having a Starbucks would be a plus for me too really. But each to their own, what matters is that you have a job, and you're happy.
ReplyDeleteSometimes it's nice to leave a city and go for something smaller, more homey feeling. Glad you're settled in and enjoying it! As for the people in camo, they're scary. You should probably react the same you would if it were a bear. Drop and play dead.
ReplyDeleteOh man, I cannot imagine living in Centralia. I've stayed the night at the McMenamins there before, but that was my longest ever stint there. Props to you! I lived just outside of Pendleton (in a trailer park, nonetheless) for a summer during law school and even though I hated it so much I think it really helped shape me as an adult. I'm sure your time there is making you a stronger person.
ReplyDeleteYour house sounds lovely! For some reason I am picturing the English house in that Christmas movie where Cameron Diaz and the actress from Titanic switch homes for a bit. Now I am annoyed that I can't remember the name of that movie or that actress...
ReplyDeleteThe holiday or something like that
DeleteI have an ideal place where I want to live but when it comes down to it as long as I make friends and have my kids and husband with me I'm fine
ReplyDeleteThank goodness my dog isn't the only one who eats kitty poop. Phew!
ReplyDeleteI'm glad to hear that you're settling in reasonable well in a different environment. Hopefully, your career with continue to progress according to plan.
ReplyDeleteI'm obsessed with small town lately and i've no idea why!
ReplyDeleteI m definitely a big city girl (Paris and Brussels mainly) and i'm about to move somewhere in the middle of nowhere in a few months.
i just hope there is a Starbucks down there ;)
It's definitely different! It's a good experience, I think most big-city girls should try living in one.
DeleteI work at a newspaper too! But as the layout designer. You write very well, enjoying your posts!
ReplyDeleteOMG I love your blog. So Glad I found it! I really enjoy living in quirky little places. And you know what the best part (at least for me) about living near no one? You don't have to please anyone! No dinner dates, no cute outfits, no having to make sure you call so-and-so and arrive on time for their gathering. You can focus 100% on you. Don't want to cram a workout in between your busy work day and your social life? Don't worry! You don't have to! There is no social life! Unless you've made friends with your camo wearing lady. :)
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